"Never tell a loved one of an infidelity: you would be badly rewarded for your troubles. Although one dislikes being deceived, one likes even less to be undeceived" Quoted N.D Lenclos
Besides this there are many other definitions of Infidelity that we come across each day in our lives. It can be over religion, marriages, relationships, sanctified vows etc. But the common definitions of all is of cheating and hovering off all the promises and breaking them to be faithful to your sexual mate. A promise or a commitment can be of different tags. Counting the sanctity of a wedlock, purity in a relationship or what people call it as Love Affair etc.
Infidelity tests have become a comman affair in today's time. A Male friend of mine unfortunately, while i was discussing with him over this issue, he surprised me by highlighting saying "I think that men are more prone towards infidelity since they cant be faithfully committed to one partner. They need variety and change as they are never satisfied."
Another senior of mine describes Infidelity as " A relation that has not been fabricated on the foundation of Trust, has a starting point of a relation with lots of lies and these issues are spreading as swift in the METROPOLITAN cities as fire in forests." He further topples the statement by adding on " Trust is a major criteria even on the Professional Front, a marriage vowed sanctity, between two Lovers, In a Business agency etc. This is a reason Infidelity is not tolerated in any relationship."
And a Female friend of mine limelight's the word "Infidelity" within three words "Cheating on someone".
A simple world discussing a single word and what we collect here are Views that differ from each other.
Well next question arises Infidelity is comman - But when does it take place ? such painful and thorny questions arise, such as :- Are you willing to stay even after what all happened ? Would you be able to trust your partner all over again ? Or will you move on in life or believe in forgiving them ?
The first friend replied in a humorous manner saying "Trust Once gone can never be fabricated again as a foundation and can never be that strong. Its like a virginity."
The Senior of mine has the say that "Suicide cases can also be a reason of Infidelity in the Metro cities till date. Vulgar MMS' and Cyber crimes all have become an integral part of it and hence the trust is being murdered" I quite like the statement here.
What I personally feel is that in life we all have bad memories and one must be given a chance despite they have been wrong. Well terms and conditions apply*. Chance also depends upon the ratio of realization of the person who is in front of you.
We shall always remember, Bad things always happen in life. How we respond to them defines our character as well as the quality of life we are living. We may choose perpetual sadness, immobilized by gravity of loss or we can choose to rise above all from the pains and learn to treasure the real precious gifts of life that we have , which is Life in itself.
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